I keep coming back to the words enmeshing/unmeshing. For me that feels really evocative of family tendrils, the way the brain works (especially in cases of forming, breaking and reforming connections). – it makes me think of a web and a net and a loosening of patterns. Don’t know how you might use it but I love that word!
Enmeshing Seven / Unmeshing Seven
Seven Enmeshed /Seven Unmeshed
The Enmeshing / Unmeshing (also love Sea’s The Untangling)
Not sure about any of those, just throwing things out there.
(Funnily enough, I’ve had exactly the same feedback from agent about my book title – I’m going to copy you and start a thread for help as I’m struggling too…:-) )