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  • Looks like we need a bot clear-out.

  • With a dozen sparkling and highly entertaining entries already posted I know I’m only making it harder for myself to choose, but feel obliged to point out that there’s still five days to go before the deadline.

  • Bringing a gun into a house changes it. The fear that used to coil in your stomach like writhing vipers has stilled. No need to jump at every squeak and clonk. Now, a strident voice in the street or the sound of smashing windows makes you smile. A slow, secretive smile.

    You think it’s power, and the gun feels like it. The slick weight in your h…[Read more]

  • Sandra replied to the topic DIY soapbox in the forum Podium 6 years, 11 months ago

    @Athelstone, @JaneShuff, @GippsGirl re posting Step so grave, if I’ve interpreted the Royal Mail site right (and often I don’t) it’ll cost £7.65 to send to France, £3 for the UK, plus, say 75p for P&P so, Jane, if you have a UK address that’ll still be cheaper than Blurb. (My profit per book is 78p, not £1.30 – maths never my strong point!- so I…[Read more]

  • Squidge posted an update 6 years, 11 months ago

    Anyone else a bit on the warm side?! *melting*

  • Squidge posted an update 6 years, 11 months ago

    So I am no longer the mum of two children; I’m the mum of two adults (supposedly) as Squidgeling T was 18 last Saturday.

    Feels very strange. Empty nest syndrome beckons…but so do holidays out of term time, opportunities to reconnect with Mr Squidge (you don’t realise how much of your identity is tied up with your kids until they are doing…[Read more]

    • Aww. In my view they should have left the age of majority at 21. Especially since they all seem to stay on the payroll for far longer than that anyway…

      Anyway, congratulations on having two adults and enjoy some quality time with Mr Squidge.

    • Congratulations, Squidge. Enjoy your return to a more independent life!

    • It does change, Squidge. It can be a bit disorientating at first and sometimes a bit sad, but you’ll develop a new relationship with them which, even though it’s a totally different shape, completely fills the hole they leave behind. Odd that.

      • I’ve been somewhat strategic in helping my daughter to develop her independence. It was I who left home for trips away, leaving her to fend for herself (once she was working, I should add!). Good practice, I thought, for when she gets a place of her own – and she agreed. She has not long returned from her big first trip, spending three months in…[Read more]

    • It is a strange feeling, Squidge, which for me felt as though time had played a trick on me. It played stranger tricks when my granddaughter fledged, but suddenly you will wonder how you fit everything in. Athers is right, the holes are soon filled and the relationships blossom, or should I say metamorphose into something quite different and…[Read more]

      • Aw, thanks all. I know things do get easier – and become different – as we’re already on that road with our eldest. We’ll take it slow, and Mr S and I will no doubt talk about it all and fingers crossed we’ll find a new equilibrium soon.

    • All my nest-leavers are now in their forties(!!!) and yes, there’s huge benefit in re-discovering the bloke you remember from way back when, but also great to build new relationships with the emerging adults. All different. All totally rewarding.

  • Sandra replied to the topic DIY soapbox in the forum Podium 6 years, 11 months ago

    Thanks Robyn, I’ll gladly sign and send you one but hopefully it’ll save you money rather than reward me because Blurb charge an embarrassing (to me) £6.99 p&p for a single book. I’m profiting by ~£1.30 per book, which is fine because I’m not after making money, just getting it out to those friends who have expressed an interest (and much p…[Read more]

  • Sandra replied to the topic DIY soapbox in the forum Podium 6 years, 11 months ago

    Jane, I’d be delighted to sign and send you one, how much would be the £7.95 + p&p. I’ve not yet got the order back and would need to go to the post office to find out what it costs. Will let you know.

  • Sandra replied to the topic DIY soapbox in the forum Podium 6 years, 11 months ago

    Thanks Janette, it didn’t work out as expected, but what book does?

  • Sandra replied to the topic DIY soapbox in the forum Podium 6 years, 11 months ago

    Thanks, Bella, have to say I’m glad to have finally got there!

  • Bella replied to the topic DIY soapbox in the forum Podium 6 years, 11 months ago

    Well done, Sandra.

  • Sandra replied to the topic DIY soapbox in the forum Podium 6 years, 11 months ago

    Thanks Kaz.

  • Sandra replied to the topic DIY soapbox in the forum Podium 6 years, 11 months ago

    Shame … I’ll check out postage costs. Or better still, hope to arrange a meet up; it’s been far too long.

  • Sandra replied to the topic DIY soapbox in the forum Podium 6 years, 11 months ago

    When IS it? It would be good to catch up

  • Athelstone replied to the topic DIY soapbox in the forum Podium 6 years, 11 months ago

    Oh well, it won’t be the same at York without you 🙁

  • Sandra replied to the topic DIY soapbox in the forum Podium 6 years, 11 months ago

    I’ve not booked for York but depending on dates could certainly deliver to anyone interested – good idea, in fact, but we’re in Orkney 5-14th …

  • Athelstone replied to the topic DIY soapbox in the forum Podium 6 years, 11 months ago

    Will you have copies at York? I definitely want it signed!

  • Sandra started the topic DIY soapbox in the forum Podium 6 years, 11 months ago

    Eight years ago I signed up for NaNoWriMo 2011 with plans to write a murder mystery (a genre I then knew little of).

    I had a title. An idea: a cruise ship on which brides were bumped off to order. I had back stories for a dozen honeymooning couples; for ship’s crew and owners (some good, some bad). Best of all I had DI Luke Darbyshere and c…[Read more]

  • Thanks, everyone. Bit of a relief, back on track now. It’s the context that makes all the difference. The song is about seeking adventure now, because it’s later than you think. Eg:
    Hitchhike down to Mexico,
    Drive to Kathmandu,
    Better do it now, my friend,
    Time catches up with you.

    Thanks again, everyone.

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