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Sandra replied to the topic The disclaimer jar – advice on attitude to one's writing in the forum The Writers' Lifeboat 7 years, 10 months ago
Yes, Thea – that ‘never apologise, never explain’ – I read, many years ago, that to do so was a sign of immaturity, but it’s one I haven’t always managed (not so much about my writing, I’m glad to say).
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Squidge replied to the topic The disclaimer jar – advice on attitude to one's writing in the forum The Writers' Lifeboat 7 years, 10 months ago
Interesting. I think sometimes, ‘It’s not quite there yet’ can sound like an apology, when it’s actually the admittance of a mature (by which I mean you know yourself and your writing) author, who realises that something created in such a short space of time needs more work. I’ve done it myself!
But of course it takes time to build that…[Read more]
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John S Alty replied to the topic For Those in Peril… in the forum Blogs 7 years, 10 months ago
Excellent, Richard.
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JaneShuff replied to the topic For Those in Peril… in the forum Blogs 7 years, 10 months ago
That should be IT didn’t disappoint!
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JaneShuff replied to the topic For Those in Peril… in the forum Blogs 7 years, 10 months ago
Logged into the Den and saw that you’d written another of your fascinating blogs, Richard, so I went and made myself a cup of tea and settled down for a good read. I didn’t disappoint. Fascinating story and I must confess to having damp eyes at the end. You’ve got a real knack of telling these tales in an interesting and moving way. Thanks Jane
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Sandra replied to the topic The disclaimer jar – advice on attitude to one's writing in the forum The Writers' Lifeboat 7 years, 10 months ago
Phillippa: that sounds a very good attitude to develop,thanks.
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Philippa East replied to the topic The disclaimer jar – advice on attitude to one's writing in the forum The Writers' Lifeboat 7 years, 10 months ago
Such an interesting thread, Sandra.
I think the most helpful advice I read on this theme was the point that it is not my job to judge whether my work is good or bad. Who am I to say whether someone else’s mind will or won’t be blown? That’s up to them.
My job as author is to write the damn piece to the very best of my ability, and then to put it…[Read more]
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Sandra replied to the topic The disclaimer jar – advice on attitude to one's writing in the forum The Writers' Lifeboat 7 years, 10 months ago
I realised that, when in the habit of being ready and willing to apologise, I was giving myself an excuses to fail.
Joining groups such as the Cloud, partaking in story challenges – stretching myself so as not to embarrass myself, judging my work against the very varied submissions of others, and trusting that my peers will give it the respect t…[Read more] -
John S Alty replied to the topic The disclaimer jar – advice on attitude to one's writing in the forum The Writers' Lifeboat 7 years, 10 months ago
You have to blow your own trumpet, no-one is going to blow it for you.
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JaneShuff replied to the topic The disclaimer jar – advice on attitude to one's writing in the forum The Writers' Lifeboat 7 years, 10 months ago
Interesting. If I’m asking people for feedback and it’s the first time for us both, I try to signal that I know the piece of work isn’t perfect/finished and that I am genuinely hoping to be told what doesn’t work. Is that self-deprecating? I don’t think so. But I wouldn’t express doubts in a cover letter because it does beg the question as to why…[Read more]
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Sandra started the topic The disclaimer jar – advice on attitude to one's writing in the forum The Writers' Lifeboat 7 years, 10 months ago
I came across an article by Philip Hensher talking about a piece of attitude-changing advice he received as a schoolboy: ‘Don’t apologise, don’t denigrate something you’ve created.’
Some of the informal writing gatherings I’ve been to share the same attitude – having spent ten minutes writing a piece using given prompt word, those who say, when…[Read more]
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JaneShuff replied to the topic Violence in the forum The Writers' Lifeboat 7 years, 10 months ago
Thanks, Giselle. You’d do well to duck.
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Giselle replied to the topic Violence in the forum The Writers' Lifeboat 7 years, 10 months ago
I love this thread!
Richard, wow, brilliant writing. That disjointedness works so well.
Whenever I have to write violence I think of Silence of the Lambs, when you really don’t see/read that much, but the tension is huge. Lots of small suggestions can build on our inner fears.
Janeshuff, so happy that you’ve found the solution! Now, all you…[Read more]
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Philippa East and
Danielle Simpson are now friends 7 years, 10 months ago
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Philippa East posted an update 7 years, 10 months ago
@danielle Welcome! So glad to have you here xxx
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Philippa East posted an update 7 years, 10 months ago
Have fixed that stupid chapter. Didn’t have to delete the whole thing after just had to write a new opening and make the rest a resolution rather than an inciting incident. Yeah, don’t worry, it’s making sense in my head. I hope.
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Philippa East replied to the topic Violence in the forum The Writers' Lifeboat 7 years, 10 months ago
I do love a good pow.
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Philippa East replied to the topic Example Cover Letter in the forum Blogs 7 years, 10 months ago
Hi @Alanr
Sounds like a plan. My understanding of the “read our books before you submit” guideline is to help prospective authors determine whether their own MS would be a good fit. I’m sure you’ll quickly work this out by consuming a few of their titles to see if your own seems similar in style and flavour. Good luck! - Load More
