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JaneShuff replied to the topic Violence and mental illness in the forum Blogs 8 years, 1 month ago
Nothing to add to Daed’s and Raine’s wise words except to sympathise Bella. It must have been very frightening.
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Daedalus replied to the topic Violence and mental illness in the forum Blogs 8 years, 1 month ago
It’s undeniably scary when stuff like that happens, and you have my sympathy. In situations like this, staff training is worth its weight in gold. The trouble is that nobody really knows what to do in this kind of scenario when they are suddenly confronted with it, and can often either freeze up or make things worse. In a previous life I worked…[Read more]
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Mad Iguana replied to the topic My failure in the forum Podium 8 years, 1 month ago
To be honest, Alan, that the very act of having written something complete enough to be able to send it out to comps is a success, so I’d start off by saying Congratulations on that massive success before worrying about the relatively small “failures” that followed.
That said… It’s far easier to say these things than do them/feel them. My…[Read more] -
Squidge replied to the topic My failure in the forum Podium 8 years, 1 month ago
crossed with you, Alan. Is failure not trying, or not winning? I’d say the former. Because if you don’t try, you might never win. And even if you don’t win because you never enter a comp, you have still succeeded in writing something.
Not sure ‘enjoyment’ comes into my reason for writing – it’s something that can feel like a chore at times! And…[Read more]
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Squidge replied to the topic My failure in the forum Podium 8 years, 1 month ago
I think with anything creative, there’s the element of personal preference. You know I arrange flowers – well, I see some designs and think ‘how the heck is that flower design?’. Especially when it’s something like a single flower head and a twig. Yet others I see are amazing feats of engineering and have flow and rhythm or colour, and I’m blown…[Read more]
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Daedalus replied to the topic My failure in the forum Podium 8 years, 1 month ago
The not-getting-shortlisted thing is tricky. I had one story that was shortlisted in a major competition. I worked on it a bit more and submitted it to a few other places…and was met with silence.
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Daedalus replied to the topic My failure in the forum Podium 8 years, 1 month ago
A failure of mine is to take each failure to heart while not believing that successes are real or worthy
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Squidge replied to the topic My failure in the forum Podium 8 years, 1 month ago
Oh goodness, yes – we are our own worst critics!!
On the cloud, we often talked about ‘failure’ and ‘success’ and how differently people perceived the definitions of them. So I completely understand that you view not being placed as failure – it was one of a whole range of responses we used to get.
Me – I enter very few comps because I hated…[Read more]
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Squidge replied to the topic My failure in the forum Podium 8 years, 1 month ago
Definitely not failure if you’ve tried some comps – you had to write the bloomin’ entry first! And from experience, competitions can be a matter of luck as well as great writing – does the judge like your particular genre? Your style? I know from peer-judging comps on the cloud, my own preference for reading material comes through in the kind of…[Read more]
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Daedalus replied to the topic Getting an Agent. in the forum Blogs 8 years, 1 month ago
I suspect there might be a difference between US and UK practice as far as copyright goes. In the UK, copyright is presupposed so you don’t need to do anything to assert it. In the US it may be a bit less clear cut
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Daedalus replied to the topic Short Story Publication/Competition in the forum Podium 8 years, 1 month ago
Indeed it is. Well done John. That’s an amazingly fast turnaround as well, they must have loved it
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Squidge posted an update 8 years, 1 month ago
@raine – found it. The kitchen saga…
Basically, we have a worktop that is not level (actually goes the ‘wrong’ way so water runs away from the sink) with the point where the join is on that worktop opened up. We have self opening drawers because they were not put in level. Or floor was re-screed for times before it was good enough to lay vinyl…[Read more]-
And apologies – just read this through and it seems my u is not working very well on the keyboard! Pshhh. Authors. You’d think they’d check their spellings, wouldn’t you? (And of course the blasted u has worked perfectly all through this post…)
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😀 I have a w that doesn’t work on my laptop keyboard, and a slightly sticky shift button on my external keyboard! I blame the complete lack of dusting.
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I blame the fellas eating at the keyboard – the crumbs get stuck underneath, especially on the lap top 😉
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Squidge posted an update 8 years, 1 month ago
@raine – what on earth had I posted that sounded so horrendous?! Not been on for a few days, so it’s all disappeared off the wall…
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Not something I imagined would happen when we were chewing over it a few months back
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I thought we agreed we wouldn’t allow hitting
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Oh Gosh, you’re 100% right. I remember now. Also, no biting, gouging or spoon scooping action. That last one almost got through if I recall, but was thrown out on a recount after somebody was shown to have voted for it 17 times. Can’t remember who that was now.
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Spoons!
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Daedalus replied to the topic Guidance on writing about mental health topics in the forum Marketplace 8 years, 1 month ago
This is absolutely fantastic. What a brilliant resource
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